Lead With A God-Confidence

February 10, 2012

Over the last two decades of my life as a leader, one of the labels I have consistently been given is arrogant. Maybe that is one you have considered about me as well. While I would never consider myself humble, I also would never consider myself arrogant. Unfortunately many, in the business and church world, mistake a bold God-confidence for self-arrogance. Is there as difference? Yes!

Marcus Buckingham, a renowned business leader, author, consultant, and researcher says it best; “If you are going to lead, you better have a deep-seated belief that you should be at the helm, dragging everyone into that better future… Virtually nothing about a leader is humble. I’m not saying they are arrogant, but their claims are big.” Buckingham states that successful leaders must find a truth through which to rally the troops.” For Christian leaders, that great rally point is simple. It is the call to lead people to Jesus, train, and send them out to be missionaries and ambassadors of Christ in their home and community.

Buckingham continues; “The chief responsibility of a leader, for example, "is to rally people for a better future. If you are a leader, you better be unflinchingly, unfailingly optimistic. No matter how bleak his or her mood, nothing can undermine a leader's belief that things can get better, and must get better. I believe you either bring this to the table or you don't.” [i]

Having a bold God-confidence is a passion to live out loud. It is the ability to walk in the opposite direction instead of following popular opinion. It is quiet, yet driving power. Most of all, in the Christian world, it is a deep trust in God’s calling and direction for your life and leadership. It’s easy to see how someone could mistake a bold God-confidence for a self-centered arrogance. Why? Because, when you know what you know, you are driven to accomplish the task. You lead out of passion and a deep desire for things to be better. Nehemiah was such a man.

Nehemiah had a bold confidence in the calling God placed on his life. He walked into a very bad situation in Jerusalem and turned everything around in 52 days. His desire was to enact change in the midst of desperation and decay. He had to have a bold God-confidence. If he hadn’t, no one would have followed him.

Think about it this way. You are about to go into battle and take a hill that no one has been able to take. Dozens of soldiers have already lost their lives trying to take the hill and now it’s your turn. The Sergeant leading the charge is cowering behind the sand bags, turns to the troops and apologizes for getting them in this mess. He is uncertain, captivated by fear, and not sure he wants to move. What’s your response? Would it not mimic the attitudes of the leader? Are you ready to follow this man?

Same scenario, different leader: He is fearful, but bold. He has a swagger and confidence that can be seen and felt among the troops. He has a belief that the hill can be taken, but is realistic about the cost. The major difference with this leader is his willingness to lead the charge and a winning optimism.

Who would you rather follow?

Understand that arrogance and confidence are not the same. Arrogance is a supreme belief in yourself. It’s an attitude of superiority, self-importance and pride. Confidence, on the other hand, (by that I mean a “God-confidence”) is a belief, a state of being, which involves faith and trust. Can confidence turn into arrogance? Without a doubt! If you don’t remember that you are leading due to God’s favor rather than your ability, you will quickly leave the safety of God-confidence and perch dangerously on the ledge of arrogance. 

If we are to change our culture, whether it be business, or spiritual, we must not be afraid to step up to the plate and lead with a bold confidence. That confidence comes from a sober understanding of who you are, the calling God has placed on your life, and a dogged determination to guide people into a better future. Will you make mistakes? Probably. Will you always win? Probably not! Then again, God has not called us into leadership to be right, or win every time. Rather, he has called us to be obedient and step out with a confidence in His ability.

“Therefore we do not lose heart. Though outwardly we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are being renewed day by day. For our light and momentary troubles are achieving for us an eternal glory that far outweighs them all. So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen, since what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal.” 2 cor 4:16-18

Let me leave you with three great quotes:

“Only those who will risk going too far can possibly find out how far it is possible to go.”--T.S. Eliot

“Remember, a dead fish can float down a stream, but it takes a live one to swim upstream."--W.C. Fields

“You need to play with supreme confidence or else you’ll lose again, and then losing becomes a habit.”--Joe Paterno, head football coach at Penn State University

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